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by alex g in General about December 13, 2017 open - report

dumped

well mmy girlfriend dumped me, didnt tell me why, she said she wanted to be just friends but then said she didnt want to be friends, now im left trying to figure out why she dumped me and what i should do. 

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    by Komodori about December 30, 2017

    Personaly My advice to you is that while you can't change the past, the future is a yet to come turn of event's try your best to turn things around for yourself, and maybe you'll find that when you next look in the mirror you'll be happier. The best ways i can say to do that is either try to let them have some time alone and then try to recontact them, or try to patch things up through conversation. Nothing has face value quite like conversation. And if worst comes to worst try to move on with your life, nothing lasts forever and if you constant lead down pasts roads you'll never reach your grand destination. Stay Beutiful Alex G

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    by OLD-SOUL about December 30, 2017

    The dynamics of relationships change and sometimes people need space; knowing the reason for a separation isn’t really necessary and focusing on it isn’t going to give you closure. If this individual no longer wants to be in a relationship it’s their decision. You will find another relationship to cultivate in good time. Now simply continue to become the best person you can be and wait for the time when you can help another person do the same. Relationships are based on mutual development.

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      by Komodori
      December 30, 2017

      I respect advice like this. It's real and legitamate.

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    by Amelia about December 27, 2017

    hey, I know I must be late but, you have every right to know why she didn't want to be in a relationship with you and if you feel you want to know. You go right ahead an ask her, the least she could do was leave you with a clear conscience and not leave you confused about what you might have done wrong.

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    by Blue about December 21, 2017

    If it recently happened then she's going to need time to heal, I've distanced myself from my ex for about a month and I'm still not fully healed from it so just give it time but hey, it's alright if you two aren't going to stay friends. It might just not have been meant to be for friendship or otherwise!

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    by hina sanヽ(o♡o)/ about December 13, 2017

    just wait to see how things play out,she might be sad, or worst case found someone else, best thing to do is stay strong and pick yourself up

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